What happens when you get served a DVRO? If you get served with a domestic violence restraining order, you must act quickly. If the order is temporary, the court most likely already granted it. You must be sure to follow the order “to the T.” If you violate the order, it could negatively affect you, especially if you or your spouse have filed or will file for divorce.
Why You Should Retain a Divorce Attorney
Hiring an attorney as soon as possible is the best option because the restraining order can enormously impact your case. The DVRO could affect visitation if you have children. Additionally, some spouses file a restraining order and try using it strategically.
The DVRO could be implemented to get you to break an order purposely. Additionally, a divorce lawyer experienced in handling cases that involve DVROs can advise you about how you should be taking these situations and what you should do for the best possible outcome.
Contacting the Other Party and Attending Court Hearings
If the order says not to contact your spouse, do not contact them. If it says to stay at least 100 yards away, make sure you do just that. If you have visitation with your children, insist on exchanging the kids in a public place.
If your spouse tries to contact you, do not respond, as you will break the restraining order. Let your attorney know immediately that your spouse is trying to reach you, despite the restraining order.
Finally, you should never miss a hearing about the DVRO. Always show up to court dressed in your Sunday best and be respectful to the judge and your spouse. Your behavior can go a long way in getting visitation with your children. You still have a chance for visitation if you can show that you are a caring parent with good intentions.
Contact a Divorce Attorney
When you have a domestic violence restraining order against you, you need to have the best defense prepared for the trial, especially if the DVRO is a fraudulent order requested by a spouse trying to discredit you.
DVROs have the power to remove weapons from your possession potentially, order supervised visitation for just a few hours per week, or deny any visitation at all. Contact my office for a free consultation to discuss your DVRO case to figure out what your options are and how we can help you.
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